Love and Boundaries: Finding Harmony in Apparent Contradiction

We often view love and boundaries as opposing forces, as if setting limits somehow diminishes our capacity to care. But consider a river: its power and beauty come not just from its flowing water, but from the banks that guide its course. Without these natural boundaries, the water would spread thin, losing its depth and direction. Similarly, boundaries in love aren't walls that prevent connection; they're channels that allow love to flow more purposefully and powerfully. They help us maintain the delicate balance between giving and receiving, enabling us to love others sustainably and wisely. Just as a river's banks protect its purpose of reaching its destination, well-placed boundaries ensure our love achieves its intended goal – the genuine good of both ourselves and those we care for.